GeekyFanGirl How can you tell if a girl is bi or lez and into you? I need some help, I met a girl and I feel like we’ve been flirting but I can’t really tell if it’s flirting and she likes me or is just being nice?
Tomioka GeekyFanGirl You should ask her : “have you already had a boyfriend ?” And then you add : “or maybe a girlfriend ?” With a tone like you are joking. You see how she reacts. If she is not interested she will think it was a joke so she wont be angry or something. If she is interested, you asking the question should let her think you are open about it 🙃
Pultost It’s a tough one. Unless it’s obvious, there’s often a blurred line between hitting on you and just being nice. Just keep in touch and see where it takes you.
Nat Try work into conversation if she’s ever kissed a girl, like if it’s that kind of conversation ask her opinion “who kisses better? Boys or girls?” If it’s a eww no to either of them then that’s telling
KaraZor-El @Tomioka "#p170403 You see how she reacts. If she is not interested she will think it was a joke so she wont be angry or something. And if she IS angry, reconsider the friendship? Because there’s nothing wrong with liking girls. Or just asking the question. But that seems like an extreme reaction so I imagine she wouldn’t be.
Tomioka KaraZor-El Some people can get angry just by the idea that you wonder if they are gay. If anything, I agree with you that there is nothing wrong with it 🙃
Mary It’s really hard to tell so you should get closer to her and try to understand her feelings but i think some things can’t be just being nice or kidding they’re just way too much for just friends.
GeekyFanGirl I was hoping to have her in my cabin at the church retreat but it didn’t happen maybe on the next one thanks for the advice
