Chloe I swear, I joined for the same reasons. I just wanted to talk and contribute normally. And I was bullied by the moderators for no reason. Even at the very end, with less than a day to go, Miki suspended me, with zero explanation. And the admin of that site had just praised me for making the most intelligent, thought provoking, by far, post on the site, ever. I was just telling them what I saw about it. I guess, for some weird reason, it pissed Miki off. I don’t know why. I really, honestly, don’t get it.
I think there aren’t a whole lot of forums right now, sadly. Maybe that can be fixed someday, I hope. But… it’s kind of lacking right now.