Sex Advice

maximus

So me and my girlfriend have sex a lot, but lately she has been getting kinda distracted during it, do you think maybe Im doing something wrong? How I can make it fun for her again, cause I love her so much and just want her to be happy!

BlackParadePixie

You’re both 13…you’re way too young to be worrying about this sort of thing. Juat have fun, you’ll figure it out.

maximus

BlackParadePixie wdym?

BlackParadePixie

And…distracted…how??

maximus

BlackParadePixie idk she just.. doesnt seem as into it as she used to

BlackParadePixie

maximus maybe try not doing.it so often??

Elara

maximus make sure she’s not feeling like she’s doing it out of obligation because she’s a girlfriend and you two did it before so feels she’s supposed to keep doing it
That kind of thing
She may not be as into it because she got in over her head and emotions are different now
Talk to her about it before you do it again

BlackParadePixie

maximus I mean you’re both still young and inexperienced. You should just be enjoying the fun, not worrying about the minute details.

maximus

BlackParadePixie we only do it like every 2 to 3 weeks, thats a lot less often then what a lot of the people on here said

Nate44hockey

Talk to her, find out what she likes, doesn’t like

maximus

Okay, I texted her if I could sleep over at her house tonight (her parents arent home!) and im walking to her house, almost there, I’ll update you guys

BlackParadePixie

Why aren’t her parents home??

maximus

BlackParadePixie Oh they work a lot, rn we have just been watching a show together and making out a bit

BlackParadePixie

You live in Europe or something??

maximus

BlackParadePixie No??? why?

BlackParadePixie

maximus America? So you walked to.your girlfriends house alone….at between 9 pm and midnight?? I don’t buy it.

maximus

Elara I just talked to her and I let her know that she is not obligated and everything, and apparently she told me that she was just wanting to do it differently but because I have always been the uh.. well the top she didnt know if I would want to do it her way, but Im completely willing to, and we are gonna try it with her on top this time, she said shes getting tired of the pose and everything I guess, we are gonna do it soon we are just finishing this episode of our show lol

maximus

BlackParadePixie Oh we live like three blocks away from eachother, plus the town we live in is small, its not that big of a deal to walk that far at nine. And why do you think I would lie about that? thats kind of pointless😂

Elara

maximus because storytelling / role playing is a thing that happens

BJade

Try doing other stuff than sex. If you really want a relationship you both enjoy, just simple stuff (not sexual) that makes you both happy will help.

And doing sexual stuff for her will probably be more enjoyable for her than just sex.

Then being intimate would probably be more emotionally and physically enjoyable for her