my brother who is 12 feels that he is more girl than a boy , he is is on blockers , anybody have thoughts or ideas to help him?her

If (s)he is on blockers that means he’s seen a specialist ? I guess (s)he has already has advices. Just support him/her and make sure he doesnt get bullied at school for that Does he have a girls look and girls clothes ?

she does have girls look hes has long hair i found out from my mom hes taking female hormones and now has small buds and my mom brought him girls clothes

donnaustin assuming this isn’t some made up attention post, show some respect and use her pronouns correctly

transgender girl

donnaustin

yes u are correct . my mom corrects me all the time , but hes been a boy for almost 12 years

Tomioka

Ashley
Hormones are allowed from 15-16 yo, not 12, so I guess this topic is exactly what you said 🙄🤔

donnaustin

maybe 15 years old in your country but not here she is taking female hormones’

Tomioka

donnaustin
What country do you live ?

Naturelover

If he wants to be like that, then let him.

donnaustin

here is the latest about my transgender sister >. ( who was born a boy ) ( and looks 100 % a girl ) she started going to a new school and made friends already, they all know she born a boy . she already had girls gym class were everyone showers together .
( i think i would be kind of embarrassed )

jacksmith123

[unknown] when you say they shower together, does that mean, your now sister has had the op to change the organs down there? if not that is unfair on the other girls

donnaustin

no my transgender sister still has her cock and balls , all the girls and my sister shower nude together , supervised by the lady gym teacher

Milla_B

donnaustin Is this possible to happen? Taking a shower with the girls? And if he has an erection? I find this very strange for schools to let this happen…I think this is a fake story.

Naturelover

Milla_B I can’t and don’t want to believe that either.

donnaustin

i did not ask my transgender sister if she got erect , but the 22 girls in her girls gym class were ok with her showering together nothing sexual went on as it was supervised by the lady gym teacher i bet there was a lot of looking going on

HannahW

I find it hard to believe any school would allow this. There are some serious protection issues here

Tomioka

HannahW his post is bullshit
Female hormones are certainly not given at 12 yo
22 girls in one class ? How many students in the class overall including boys ? 40 ? 🤔

Isabel_15

HannahW Exactly… . it’s hard to believe that they would let a transgender boy be in the same locker room as the girls… I think this is pure fantasy

KaraZor-El

Pultost

It just occurred to me that this title can be sung to “Calendar Girl” by Neil Sedaka. Come on, everybody! Sing along!
“I love, I love, I love my transgender girl!” 😛

donnaustin

2 classes together is 43 boys and girls and yes female hormones’ are given at 12 years old with parent approval

HannahW

Isabel_15

I don’t want to say this is pure fabrication … BUT I find it hard to believe all 22 of the girls in the class would be comfortable in this situation, let alone all 22 sets of parents. No school would ever allow a situation like this. It’s a lawsuit waiting to happen.

jacksmith123

[unknown] hormones may be given, but the op to remove the parts doesnt happen until much later. until that happens, if i was a parent of one of the other girls, I would insist that your sister continue with the boys. Whilst any person has the right to trans gender, they too must respect the rights of others, and until such time as the transition is complete cannot be allowed to do such things as move changing rooms

donnaustin

hi My transgender sister new name is Cathy she’s 99 % female and looks’ and acts and talks female. and with meeting with the principle of the school and my mom it was decided best if she go with the girls in there gym class not the boys gym class also each girl was asked first if my transgender sister can be in there girls gym class all said yes , also i should note my transgender sister is one of the popular girls in her class and has made many friends at school

BJade

Yeah, having a biological boy in the girls changing room definitely sounds like a safeguarding issue. Even having a shared bathroom with separate cubicles can be a problematic situation for some parents (and the kids themselves)

Also seems weird you say you’re close to your brother/sister. Saying he was gay in your profile. But didn’t sound like you knew they felt like a girl 🤔 surely would have been a girl at home, or done something to talk to you, and felt this for a while, before they started transitioning (what ever is allowed where you live as rules and feelings on puberty blockers and hormone treatment at young age are seriously different everywhere)