HeyCameron
Interesting that having sex seems significant enough to ask for a roommate to go elsewhere for a while but not masturbation. Is it, perhaps, that weâre less embarrassed talking about sex than masturbation?
I donât share a room, at least for most of the year, and I first came across this sharing situation while camping and pretty much we all masturbated last thing at night. Not out in the open: it was never a circle jerk, but just in our own sleeping bags and maybe talking about it and things that turn us on.
There have been times I have had to share a room for a few days up to a couple of weeks and, depending on the situation, I have either used the room when I new I wouldnât be walked in on, or talked it through and agreed it is ok to do it. If someone had reacted that they would be offended I would respect that by not doing it with them in the room, but I would also suggest that we come to an arrangement, just like for having sex, where we both get some private time.