Hello everyone, How do you deal with it, if you want to be intimate with your partner, but you share a room with someone like your siblings or because of college? How do you feel about masturbation when you share a room?

I did that sort of thing whenever the person I lived with was gone. You kind of just have to deal with it.

Then you do what my roommate and I did: kick the other one out when a girl is coming over. 😛 The fact that we were both in that position sometimes meant it didn’t feel like either one of us was being unreasonable. It’s just something you have to work out with the person. As for masturbation, well, you wait until they’re in class and you’re off for a while. Though one time I came back unexpectedly because I’d forgotten my wallet, and he’d already lowered the shades and had the box of tissues out and everything. I think he was very embarrassed; I felt bad. I just said “it’s not like I don’t do the same thing”. 🤷♂

I dont share a room but if i did i would tell i want the room to my self for a few hours

Sex / masturbation when sharing a room.

CadeFoster

Well, when I want to get it on with my girlfriend. we either make sure that my brother is off doing something else, or we go to my girlfriend’s house.

As for masturbation, again, I wait until my brother is off doing something else or I go somewhere else like the bathroom.

Maseb

In our dorm room we agreed, since we all masturbate, close the door for privacy. At home my brother and I really didn’t hide it

luma-tomato

Maseb

But then you still each have your own room? Otherwise closing the door won’t help

At home with your brother it will inevitably result in you catching each other every now and then?

Maseb

luma-tomato

At school we have our own rooms but will probably share soon, we’re becoming a couple.
At home we didn’t care

Anya

Everyone needs to do it so either speak about it and find out what your comfortable doing or just save it for the shower or when they’re out of the room

Jacob

I share a room with my two brothers. We all masturbate, even when one or even both of the others is in the room. It’s nothing to be embarrassed about, but none of us sits there gawking at each other if that person is masturbating.

Sex my boyfriend and I only do alone when there’s no one else around (usually works except for the one time one of his brothers walked in on us).

luma-tomato

Jacob Oh, I hope it was not to embarrassing for you when you got „caught“?
How did you react?

Brian

Jacob
When you say having sex, do you mean humping each other?

7x7

I do it anyway

corey_stratton

I wait till I’m in the shower, total privacy and easy clean up, and plenty of soap.

luma-tomato

corey_stratton and with your boyfriend?

Sontoloyo

luma-tomato in my bathroom or do it at midnight when everyone sleep

corey_stratton

luma-tomato only 1 time

davethedude

did it with my gf with others in the room once. had to be super quiet

GMGirl

It’s okay to do it if my mom, aunt or cousin is there. There is nothing to be ashamed of. But only family members.

BlackParadePixie

GMGirl 🤨

luma-tomato

corey_stratton

Oh, I meant how you deal with your boyfriend when you want to get intimate and you share a room. This wasn’t specifically related to showering with your boyfriend.

corey_stratton

luma-tomato if my bro is going to be around after school then we might go to his house where its more private, we text each other what were going to do. or else we just wait till my bro ain’t around

luma-tomato

corey_stratton But that sounds like you have to plan and organize allot when you wanne have some fun with your boyfriend.

corey_stratton

luma-tomato yeah sometimes but it depends on what he wants to do, but its easier now since we both came out so we dont have to hide as much

Jacob

luma-tomato When his brother walked in, he just looked at us kind of startled for a moment, went “Oops!” and turned around and walked out. We were a bit embarrassed but nervously laughed it off and went om with what we’d been doing. I guess my BF and his brother had a bit of a talk about it later.

luma-tomato

corey_stratton

corey_stratton it depends on what he wants to do

If the question is not to personal / inappropriate: What do you mean with that?